Here’s one of the fundamental flaws of social media:
Negative posts get more engagement than positive posts.
A new Cambridge University study suggests that posts are TWICE as likely to go viral if they are NEGATIVE about politicians rather than positive.
The university analyzed 2.7 million tweets and Facebook posts from US media outlets and politicians over five years. It found that negative posts are also twice as likely to be commented on.
In the world of social media, being hateful and derogatory always trumps being kind and positive. In fact, it is being REWARDED.
One of the researchers at Cambridge said:
“Social-media companies desire engagement and virality from us at all costs to produce ad revenue, and we as individuals desire engagement and virality to get our message out or promote a political campaign.”
THE CULT OF NEGATIVITY
What kind of a sick cycle is this, that rewards trolls and punishes positive content?
Before I get to what I think is the root of the problem, I want to tell you something you already know. We’re not just talking about the polarization of politics on social media that accounts for this negative trend.
I think we’re in the midst of an anti-intellectual coarsening of our culture. The relative anonymity of the online world just makes it easier for people to show their true colors and be more extreme.
As someone who has been in journalism for many years, I know that the most sensational headlines get the most attention. “If it bleeds, it leads,” is the phrase we use. Controversial and scary stories are way more popular than positive news. I can even tell by the way you respond to this blog.
THE NETHERVOICE TOP THREE
Whenever I firmly kick the pants of certain Pay to Plays in the voice over industry, the story is widely read, shared, and quoted. My blog post Voices.com: Unethical and Greedy? is still one of the most popular stories on this website.
It is followed in popularity by The Voice Arts™ Awards. The New Pay to Play? And number three on the list is 5 Reasons Why You Should Never Become A Voice Over.
No matter how hard I try to stay positive, helpful, and uplifting, it tells me that contentious stories do much better than any other content. These are the stories people remember when they meet me in person. What’s up with that?
AN EVOLUTIONARY FOCUS
I think it may have to do with our focus. You see, our brain has a lot to pay attention to on any given day. It needs to decide what to focus on and what not. Otherwise it gets overwhelmed.
It makes sense not to focus on the ordinary and the predictable, and to concentrate on the extraordinary and the unpredictable. Evolution has taught us to pay attention to the things that stand out. The things that are possibly dangerous.
That’s why we notice that ONE driver on the road whose behavior is erratic, and filter out all the others who drive predictably and safely. In a way, were all proofreaders searching for that one mistake taht stands out (in this sentence alone there were 2 mistakes).
SEEKING ATTENTION
So, if you wish to be noticed, go for the unusual, the bizarre, the ridiculous, the nasty, the alarming, and the negative. Those posts are most popular. It’s one of the reasons I gave my book the unusual title “Making Money in your PJs” and not “Useful Tips for Voice Overs.” And frankly, it’s also one of the reasons I wear ridiculously fluffy yellow Dutch clogs to voice over conferences.
That, by the way, is also the good news in this story about negative news and trolling. You don’t necessarily have to resort to rudeness and negativity to get attention. You can be colorful and silly and stand out in a crowd. The other positive takeaway is something I used to tell the participants in my media trainings. They were always complaining:
“Why is the news so negative?” “You reporters always show up when there’s trouble, and never when things go well.”
I had to tell them:
“This has to do with the nature of news. It focuses on the exceptional and on the things that are extraordinary. One thousand airplanes taking off and landing safely is not newsworthy. That ONE plane that crashes, is. As long as the news focuses on the exception, it means that OVERALL our world is still a pretty decent place.”
GOING VIRAL
So, what to do if you want people to notice your content on social media? Do you go to the extreme, knowing that the most polarizing content wins the day? I think it’s a matter of knowing your audience.
Radical right wing influencers know exactly which buzz words to use to get their base all revved up. They also know what to say to get their left-leaning opponents up in arms. It’s a game of stimulus – response. I think the readers of my blog know better and deserve better.
In the past year or so, I chose to be less controversial and less confrontational. My opinions haven’t changed, but the way I try to express them is generally milder (at least that’s my intention). It’s more in line with who I really am, but making that choice has had its repercussions.
Since I’ve become less of a militant barnstorming persona, my blog readership and number of subscribers has gone down a bit. For me, it’s never been about the numbers, but I do want people to read and respond to my stories. Otherwise, what’s the point?
The BBC writes:
“Social-media algorithms are often designed to promote the most popular material – meaning the more engagement a post has, the more likely it is to pop up in the feeds of a wider audience.”
I really want that “wider audience” but not at any price.
CHANGING MINDS
Some people in the community call me an “influencer,” but I see myself more as an ENCOURAGER.
To “encourage” comes from the word “courage” which goes back to the French word for heart, “coeur.” I put my heart and my soul into my writings, hoping that my words will resonate. But it doesn’t all have to come from this blog. There are other platforms besides nethervoice.com where I can share my message.
This week I was Val Kelly’s guest for her “Live with Squacky” podcast.
I also had a fun conversation with Linda Bruno and JJ Wilson who produce the Voiceover Gurus podcast (as always, the bold text in blue is a hyperlink taking you to additional content).
As far as the success of this blog is concerned, I’ll do my best to keep it fresh, entertaining, and relevant. I won’t shy away from controversial topics, but I’m not going to be needlessly confrontational to increase my readership.
Is that a good approach?
You decide!
Joshua Alexander says
I love your blog, Paul. I look forward to every Thursday because you ARE an encourager. You do tackle the hard issues, yes. But the bedrock of your posts is not to stir up dissension or stoke the embers of confrontation; rather it DOES come from your heart to stir us forward to higher knowledge, to equip us, and to open our eyes to how we can improve: not only our VO pursuits, but more importantly, ourselves. THANK YOU.
Paul,
Great post with a lot of spot on points! One of my favorite points is, “The relative anonymity of the online world just makes it easier for people to show their true colors and be more extreme.” Always makes me wonder if these people would say those words to someone’s face? Why is it so hard to agree to disagree?
The trick is to disagree without being disagreeable. That seems to become a lost art. People are hiding behind fake online identities, and when you call them on their foul language and idiotic ideas, they’ll tell you: “Oh, I was just kidding.” Or they’ll point at the freedom of speech which they think gives them the right to say anything they want.
Paul, you are 100% correct on the reply. Love the statement that, oh I was just kidding! REALLY???
My personal opinion for what it’s worth is “staying in line with who you really are” is the authentic and judicious way to go! As a yogi at heart, I love Gandhi’s quote:
“Happiness is when what you think, what you do, and what you are in harmony.”
I try to live, as best I can, by this mantra. Do I falter….. absolutely.
I honestly believe social media is the degradation of our society…sounds strong I know but this thought alone will impede me from society’s definition of success in the VO world….but I am okay with that… I just don’t believe in posting everyday….sending emails is more my speed and social media when I have something meaningful to share.
Stay well…thank you for your blog and for any comments that you may have!
Carolyn Rubin
Good observations, Carolyn! Yes… “Social” media is almost nothing of the kind. How many people have become more social as a result of using it? When you see all those people on a bus or a train or waiting somewhere huddled together, are we more social? Nope! Heads down, buried in our phones. God forbid we should actually engage in conversation with fellow humans in real life! It’s actually made us so much more insular.
This reminds me of my time at the playground with my daughter. I was the only father around, and all the kids used to come up to me, hungry to get some attention… while their mothers just sat there, looking at their phones.
Go out to a restaurant and just observe all of the people on their phones. Very sad.
Thank you for sharing that lovely quote, Carolyn. Truly becoming who we are meant to be, is a lifelong journey with many ups and many downs. Living is learning!