You’re reading this because we’re both on social media, and you’re either a subscriber, or some mysterious algorithm has determined that this is content you may enjoy.
If you’re one of those people that has jumped on the Threads bandwagon lately (as in Threads, the new Twitter, or should I say “X”?), and you’re wondering why you have all kinds of people on your timeline you do not follow, that’s the algorithm in action. It works on the principle that past behavior is the best indicator of present and future behavior.
BIAS BUBBLE
Yes, people are predictable and we tend to like people who are like us. This creates a very comfortable bias bubble where we can avoid those who don’t think the way we do, or do the way we do.
Protection from different opinions and lifestyles may create tribes we like to associate ourselves with, but they also prevent us from learning about people and interacting with people who are not like us.
It’s a bit like parents who only expose their kids to country music. There’s nothing wrong with country music, but there’s so much more to explore. And when you expose these kids to Bach or Beethoven, they may think it’s strange and not like it very much.
Seeing, hearing, feeling, touching and smelling new things enriches our lives in many ways.
EMPATHY
Traveling to different countries, even working there, has changed my entire outlook on life. It becomes even better when you learn another language and get to delve into a whole new culture. It has helped me walk in other people’s shoes and it has increased my level of empathy.
It has also taught me that you can look at any issue in many ways, depending on who you are, where you live, and your level of education (among other things), AND that the world you and I see, is often a reflection of who we are.
If, for instance, you deeply believe that people are out to get you, that’s what you will see happening around you. But if you, on the other hand, believe that people are decent and kind, that’s what you’ll observe and encounter.
Perception, as they say in psychology, is mostly projection.
So, when social media purposefully limit our exposure to “otherness” of any kind so they can target the right advertising to the right demographic, it does society a huge disservice. It’s like giving us the ability to only spot things in our favorite color and the rest is grayed out. What a boring, boring world that would be!
Newsflash: it’s already happening!
BEING CRITICAL
Now, there’s one more thing I want to bring up in this context. It has to do with being critical.
If you -like me- believe that critical thinking is a vital skill to have these days, you have to welcome those who do not necessarily agree with you. You have to welcome independent thinkers who go against the grain, and make others a bit uncomfortable. You have to accept the fact that the way you view things can be challenged, and that it’s okay to ask questions.
Now, what bothers me is that in my community (the voice over community), those who ask critical questions are often seen as being “negative,” “unsupportive,” and “nasty.” As if the sole purpose of the critical thinkers is to bring others down and lift themselves up. As you may have guessed, I speak from experience.
I’ve been accused of being someone who has a bone to pick with certain individuals or businesses. When that happens, the focus shifts to some assumed personal vendetta, and is no longer on the issue. How convenient!
SOVAS UNDER FIRE
A recent example was my story about the Voice Arts Awards. In it I revealed that the independent website Charity Navigator gave the Society of Voice Arts and Sciences (SOVAS) 2 out of 4 stars because there’s no documentation of an independent audit or financial review, there’s no document retention and destruction policy, no whistleblower policy, and SOVAS has no conflict of interest policy. I think that’s a big deal when you’re running a competition.
After the story broke very few people thanked me for bringing this out into the open. Instead, I was verbally assaulted and asked to stop “my attack on Joan and Rudy.” Joan Baker and Rudy Gaskins run SOVAS as well as the Voice Arts Awards.
This is ridiculous for many reasons. First off, I am only the messenger. I am not responsible for what Charity Navigator concluded, which is available to the public, by the way. Secondly, I don’t know Joan and Rudy. I have never met them, and I probably never will.
Lastly, our community needs outspoken critical thinkers, just like any other community on the planet. We need people to call BS because not everything is hunky-dory in voiceoverland. Too many of my colleagues are afraid to stick their necks out so as not to damage their reputation.
BEING TOO LAME
The many podcasts, blogs, and YouTube “shows” we have about our business are among the lamest in the freelance community. “Let’s not say anything controversial, people, or you may never be nominated for a Unicorn Award…”
[oh gosh, now Paul is attacking the Unicorn Awards…]
I can already hear my critics accusing me of using this blog to vent my personal frustration, but that would be missing the point. I don’t care about how people perceive me. I think people need to break out of their bias bubbles and get out of their comfort zones. Not because I want the world to agree with me. I want the world to wake up and give a damn!
The SAG-AFTRA members are obviously sick of how they’ve been treated. They see what’s happening in terms of Artificial Intelligence. Most of them don’t make enough to qualify for health insurance. Many have more than one job to make ends meet. As far as I can tell most voice actors make even less, and all they do is post “I support the strike” messages on social media.
Meanwhile, voices dot com posts yet another lousy text-to-speech job on their platform: up to 300.000 words for $15,000 full buyout, and over 50 members have already auditioned. I don’t hear anyone complain about that. We’re too afraid to bite the greedy hand that feeds us. If people are okay with the Fiverr model, why would they stand up and fight for fair fees?
WHY AM I STILL DOING THIS?
Sometimes I wonder why I am still a member of this lame community. Sometimes I think of hanging up my blogger hat, and do something useful with my time. But that would be giving in to those who’d like to see me go away. I hate leaving unfinished business, and I have many colleagues who tell me that I say the things that they are thinking, but are afraid to share in public. It’s never been about me. It’s always about those people. The people I care about.
So, if you’re ready to burst out of your bubble and want to shake things up a little, stay tuned! I’ll keep on posting my daily videos on Instagram, and I’ll publish a new blog post every Thursday. My goal is to inform, entertain, and inspire you in thought-provoking ways.
If this speaks to you, I’ll keep on talking. Critics are welcome and encouraged to speak their mind in the comments.
Marcus Massey says
Do NOT hang up your blogger hat Paul !!!!
Paul Strikwerda says
I won’t do that, Marcus, but I made a commitment to not do any interviews, podcasts, or go to any conferences for the next year. I will stay active on the channels I can control, like my website and my social media accounts.
Keep in thinking. Keep on analyzing. Keep on doing. Keep on talking. Keep on sharing. Keep on being YOU, Paul.
Thanks, Debby. They can’t get rid of me that easily!
Another inconvenient truth from Paul!
I’ll make it as inconvenient as necessary.
…keep on keepin’ on!
One of my favorite theater lines is from Peter Stone and Sherman Edwards’s musical 1776. Stephen Hopkins, the iconoclastic and cantankerous delegate from Rhode Island, declares, when asked to vote for or against an open debate on independence, declares: “Well, I’ll tell y’—in all my years I never heard, seen, nor smelled an issue that was so dangerous it couldn’t be talked about. Hell yes, I’m for debatin’ anything . . . !”
(I’ll add one qualification: it has to be a real debate, not just people yelling slogans and catch-phrases at each other.)
I love that musical, by the way. William Daniels is amazing. I agree with your last line, and that’s why my blogs are usually pretty long. Too long for some folks.
As usual, Paul, you make an extremely cogent and valuable point.
The present and ongoing age of hyperconnectivity ushered in by the Internet and Social Media has given us both a boon and a curse. The availablilty of massive amounts of learning is unfortunately offset by the tribalism that has fractured our society into ever more subsets of like-minded individuals who can sit in their online bubbles and not have to truly consider anything that makes them uncomfortable. In so many ways we have become the “Divided States of America”, and that is the sad and scary reality in which we find ourselves now.
Thank you for being not only a Critical Thinker, but a Critical Speaker as well.
Or has it exposed what’s been there for many, many years?
Keep doing what you’re doing Paul, you are on the right track. Cheers, Bernard.
As long as there are still songs in me, I will keep on singing, Bernard! (don’t care if I’m out of tune, sometimes)
Great post as always Paul!
It is an interesting world we are living in these days and it seems to get more difficult to navigate by the day. Social media has created and perpetuates a discordant collection of echo chambers in which we subjected to a cacophony of only what the almighty algorithm wants us to see. Add to that the extreme polarization we are seeing in society and refusal to listen to any dissenting opinions, and you end up getting extremism, instant hate, and cancel culture. Look at what politics and the main stream media has done to us over the last few decades for a perfect example of this.
One thing that is supposed to set us humans apart from the animals is critical thinking, and yet we seem to have lost that ability. Do I believe or agree with everything you or anyone says? Absolutely not, nor should anyone else. We are all entitled to our opinions in a free world. Does that mean I hold a grudge or hate you or anyone else, absolutely not. As you said, being able to meet people where they are, hear them out, and then politely disagree is what helps us grown as individuals, gain empathy for others, and live together in harmony.
Keep doing what you’re doing, opinions of others be damned. If it somehow destroys your career/friendships, then that is your cross to bear and you alone must deal with those consequences.
Thanks for saying that, Nevin. I have been dealing with the fallout from my writings, and that’s why I am not doing any public appearances for the next twelve months. I simply can’t stand the people that are thanking me for speaking up, but who are refusing to back me up for whatever reason. I don’t want to see them in person but I will keep raising my voice on social media. I’m not abandoning my community, but I am keeping my distance.
Very well said, Paul. Keep doing what you’re doing. So many blogs and podcasts just seem to be echo chambers. I don’t mean that as an insult to bloggers and podcasters in our industry because they often do have helpful info. It’s just that everyone says the same things and if anyone differs from it they get attacked. Anyways, thanks for your fresh perspective!
First of all, thanks for subscribing, Michelle! Also, it’s nice to hear that you think that someone who just turned 60 can still offer a fresh perspective!